Wednesday, September 28, 2011

YouTube + Natural Hair

The Natural Hair Community on YouTube is just awesome and I don't think I would have lasted a whole year of being natural without it.  I originally wanted to only share with you guys my TOP 5 natural hair YouTubers but after hours of contemplating on who my top 5 would be I just couldn't choose.  There are just so many ladies here that have been so inspirational in my natural hair journey I didn't want to leave anyone out.  So I just decided to call out a few that I think anyone considering going natural or a natural who just need some fresh ideas should check out.


I just love her curls they're very close to mine so a lot of things that work on her hair works on mine.  She has great advice and her tutorials are very professional and informative.



Her her is just simply thebomb.com lol and I love her blog as well www.NaturallyObsessed.net lots of good info for naturals.



Love her styles, and she does great make-up tips as well.




She has awesome style videos.  If your tiered of wearing the same old natural styles definitely check here out.




I fell in love with her red hair.  But she has a great personality as well and great tips for taking care of color treated natural hair.




So definitely check these ladies out and subscribe if you are not already a subscriber =)

Someone Like You!


Someone Like You by: Adele

I finally got my hands on Adele's latest album and this is the first song I fell in love with.  I just can relate to it in so many ways.  It's awsome when you can find songs that express exactly what your feeling.  Not only does she has an awesome voice, but she makes you feel every last word. 

I went searching for videos and came across this video on YouTube and fell in love with Casy Ford Alexander.  Check out his channel.

Enjoy!

Monday, September 26, 2011

Love this Akon Song on DJ Smallz Mixtape

Southern Smoke Radio R&B 5









My favorite so far is Akon - Rely. I love Akon's cute songs about love. He always does an amazing job. 
Listen for yourself and check the rest of DJ Smallz Mixtape.

Livemixtapes.com

A Strong Father and Daughter Bond as CEO's


Father and Daughter start there own business. This is so amazing to see this kind of thing. He's doing this for his daughter and showing her what lifes all about at the young age of 7 years old. His oldest daughter is a silent-partner at 11 years old. I can see them doing big things, because companies like this you show support too. 
Check out the full story from Black Enterprise or go to the link below to go directly to ths article.


Father-Daughter CEOs Strengthen Family Bond with New Publishing Company - Black Enterprise


I encorage everyone to believe in their talents that they were given and share them with the world. Like this father and daughter have done.

8 Blogging Basics for Small Business Owners - Black Enterprise



Check out this article from Black Enterprise . If you are tryin to start a business these are some very basic blogging tips to help you get the head start that you need to maintain a blog and yet still maintain the business structure.

8 Blogging Basics for Small Business Owners - Black Enterprise

Wednesday, September 21, 2011

Check out Kriswak on YouTube

I fould this guy browsing my tumblr. and i absolutely love this
video and this beyonce song that he did. He has such an amazing voice.

Do you like hiss style?

I think its so different and such a unique idea. its hard not to just fall in love with @kriswak.Check him out for yourself. Lots more videos to fall in love with on you tube. :)

Am i Really that odd?




Where are all my Left-handed people at? Im wondering if you go through the same thing I do just by being left-handed. People act like your some kind of strange person when they see you using your left hand. They are always like “your left handed?? Isn’t that hard using your left hand to do things?: well umm no it kinda isn’t if I was born left-handed. Its like they cant comprehend that using my left hand is normal for me. I have to simply explain to people no its not hard because I been using my left hand all my life. Haha. Its kind of funny. I think the only 2 things I can think of that I find difficult to do with my left hand is write with a pencil because my hand drags over everything I have already written. And I smug my writing or I get a huge lead stain on the side of my hand. The other thing is sing scissors. Theres always that one pair of scissors I try to use that just wont cut anything with my left hand. Then I h ave to try extra hard or ask someone to cut if for me. Im a grown women asking someone to cut something for me. When I try to switch hands and use my right still doesn’t work because im not made to use my right hand. I remember in kindergraden that my teacher always had to cut my stuff out for me, I left weird then because then you seem like the only person that uses their left hand. 
Now the strange thing about me is that any sport I play, I do on my right side. Basketball, softball, and golf are some that I’ve never even tried my left side. I jus went to my right side because it felt right.
I jus wrote this because it seems like every person that discovers that im left handed has  to make some strange comment on how I use my left hand.


Where are all my left-handed people at? Do people do this to you to? I would like to know some of your stories about being left-handed.                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                        
 I think us left-handed people are a blessing to the earth for even being giving the ability to be different.

Love Ya’ll!

Monday, September 19, 2011

30 Before 30

I have 5 years minus a few months before I have to say good bye to my twenties.  I was reminded Saturday by my 8yr old nephew that I am still young because I am not 30 yet but in 5 years when I am 30 I will be old lol.  Now I don't think 30 is old and that could be because I am fastly approaching that mark, but it got me to thinking about all that I have done and where I wanted to be in my life when I reached that milestone.  So Here is a list that I have carefully put together, in no particular order of 30 things I want to do before I am 30 years old..

I need you guys to help hold me accountable lol for getting these things done in the next 5yrs... and the way time is flying by my time will be up before I know it.


  1. Learn how to ride a motorcycle and get my license.
  2. Buy a motorcycle
  3. Get married
  4. Have children
  5. Buy a house
  6. Go on a cruise
  7. Visit South America
  8. Learn how to swim (don't laugh at me)
  9. Be completely debt free
  10. Run a successful business of my own
  11. Go to Disney World
  12. Go horseback riding
  13. Go fishing
  14. Go Jet skiing 
  15. See the ocean
  16. Visit New York
  17. Live in a loft (with high ceilings, hardwood floors, and exposed brick walls lol)
  18. Live a completely healthy lifestyle
  19. Run 
  20. Ride in an airplane
  21. Road trip across the US
  22. Go on a real camping trip
  23. Try my hand at painting
  24. Truly make a difference in someones life
  25. Take my best friends and my mom on shopping sprees 
  26. Write and illustrate a children's book
  27. Have my own line of stationary products
  28. Go hiking
  29. Go Skiing 
  30. See Beyonce perform live
Now there could definitely be more added to this list, but this is all I can think of for now. Some of it my seem silly or shallow but hey who cares, its my list.  Now its time for me to start knocking these out one by one.

Pencil & Paper






















Ever since I was a kid I was in love with just pencil and paper.  Whether it was writing or drawing, it just seemed like in that moment nothing else would exist to me.  It just took me to a place of pure serenity where I didn't have to think about anything.  Over the years I kinda lost that.  I got busy you can say.  I got into graphic design but I spend more time on the computer working on my designs than I do with just pencil and paper and I really miss that.

So my goal is to get back to the pencil and paper, and just feed my talents.  I know I'm a good artist I just don't work on it enough.  I've gotten too caught up in other things in my life to focus on some of the things that I really love to do, the things that are just in me and comes naturally.

I drew the above picture about a year ago while I was at work on a Sunday board out of my mind and I had no idea that it would turn out as good as it did.  Sure there is a lot of flaws in this drawing but I did it in like two hours so thinking about how quickly I drew this picture made me think of how good I could be if I put a little more time and effort into it.

Sunday, September 18, 2011

1 Year Natural

I finally reached my one year natural mark and I could not have been any more excited, and proud of my self for making this life style change and actually sticking to it.  After transitioning with sew-in for 18+ months last September I decided that I wanted to have healthy hair that grows out of my head that I can be proud of and not have to hide or fight with it all the time.  So I decided to not put any heat in my hair for a year and began to learn  how to take care of my natural hair.

Now because I went heat free for a whole 12 months I was super excited to straighten my hair and see how long and healthy it looked flat ironed.  Because I wasn't patient and had a wedding to attend I decided to blow dry and flat iron my hair the night before the hottest day of the year lol....and it turned into a giant fro lol. It didn't help that I was afraid to damage my hair so i barely used a high heat setting, which is the only way I can get my hair to be straight.  I love my giant fro but it was not the look I was going for.  So I did a dry braid out and absolutely loved the results.



After rocking my dry braid out as long as possible before wetting my hair I couldn't wait to try more styles and just experiment more with my hair in a blown out state.  So I did it again and it just did not turn out the way I wanted.  So I decided to just twits up my hair without extensions like I do with my Senegalese twist and I absolutely love the results lol.  


I didn't think I would because of my obsession with long hair lol.  But as it turns out my twist are longer than I thought they would be.  I just wish I would have done them smaller. Maybe next time.  I think this is definitely gonna be my new go to protective style for the winter months.  I'm so excited to continue this journey and see all that my hair has to offer =)


Friday, September 9, 2011

Curls, Curls, Curls!

So anyone who knows me know that I am obsessed with curly hair.  I have been natural for 1yr now after transitioning with sew-ins for about a year and a half.  During this journey (which I will share in more detail later) I have come to love my hair in its natural curly state, or with stretched out styles.  So below I have many many many pictures of curly haired beauties that inspire me and I hope they inspire you as well.

Enjoy!




















none of the pictures above are owned by tri-love

Sunday, September 4, 2011

Toy Story 3 Review


Toy Story 3 Review

The Pixar film, Toy Story 3 is a brilliant sequel that sets itself on another level from Toy Story and Toy Story 2. When Toy Story was aired in 1995 it immediately became an all-time favorite, and had every kid wondering what their toys did while they were not around. The characters we all fell in love with, Woody played by Tom Hanks and Buzz Lightyear played by Tim Allen are back for another action packed adventure in the world of toys. This 2010 Pixar film was directed by Lee Unkrich, who has no problem making this cute animation movie enjoyable for all ages and including an underlying message to the viewers. 
            For everyone who has been following the Toy Story series might feel like they grew up with the lovable owner of the toys, Andy. We wa7tched him get his very first toy Woody followed by Buzz Lightyear, so it’s a surprise to us to see Andy has grown up and ready to go off to college. His sister Molly, went from a baby to a tween, who cracks on Andy for still having these toys in his room.  And we all remember the peppy family dog, which now is old and slow moving. Andy’s toys have always found a way to amuse themselves when no one was watching but for this bunch there future is uncertain.  As Andy is finishing up packing for college he had some decisions to make, what goes in the attic for keeps, what gets thrown away, and what gets donated to other kids.  You can tell how much Woody means to him because it’s the only toy he could not give away and had planned on taking to him to college because he could not break his attachment from his childhood toy. The others were not happy that Andy would choose to give him away, but it was his mom who made the mistake because Andy wanted them to be put in the attic. Woody cares too much about his pals to let them get thrown away so he comes up with a plan to save his friends. Eventually the toys end up at Sunnyside Day Care Center, which is described as  “a place of ruin and despair,” according to Mr. Prickle Pants played by Timothy Dalton. After they see how the toys are treated at Sunnyside and not at all what they’ve been told, the rest of the movie is an action packed prison escape.  Sunnyside is not at all what they imagined especially after meeting some of the new characters like the big purple teddy bear  named Lots-O-Hugs, which all the toys treat like the leader. There is also The one eyed baby who looks like a giant compared to the other toys, the deceiving nicely dressed Ken doll and the screeching monkey who is the eyes for the evil Lots-O-Hugs.
            Toy Story 3 is a story of friendship and imagination. Toy Story 3 is filled with lots of themes that make it so lovable, like family, friends, coming of age, and potential social obsolesce. No one wants to grow old and not be useful to anyone or anything anymore which is how Andy feels about his toys.  I love how Toy Story 3 emphasizes how much friends mean to one another and how friends should stick together, and that’s what makes true pals. Throughout the whole movie no matter what obstacles Woody, Buzz, and the rest of the gang went through, they always stuck together. Even when Woody didn’t go to Sunnyside Day Care Center like the rest, he was on a mission to get there and save his friends.  They all plot together on how to escape from Sunnyside and never turned their backs on one another and always stuck together. Even towards the end of the movie when Lots-O-Bear was in danger, Woody risked his life to save him, saying “us toys need to stick together,” but was tricked only so Lots-O-Hugs could escape not caring for anyone but himself. But what was really touching and made everyones heart melt, was when Woody and the gang had to face a situation where they thought they would not escape and would not escape from getting burned to ashes. The whole gang looked at each other, locked hands, and was ready to face their destiny together. Not one time did these pals deceive each other or only think about themselves in any of the situations they faced through out there prison escape adventures.  We all wish that we could have friends as loyal as they are to one another.
            Another reason why Toy Story 3 shows diversity to all ages is the fact that we all have to deal with the issue of coming of age. This is something that kids have to experience and adults are all too familiar with.  I think we all can relate to having our most cherished toys from our youth. The ones that we couldn’t go anywhere without and would breakdown if we misplaced. So we all can understand how hard it was for Andy to give up some of his most favorite toys. It’s never easy to let go of something you cherished for so long.  Apart of growing up is letting things go, which Andy battles with throughout the movie. Should he keep his toys in the attic for memories, give them away for other kids to enjoy, or throw them away? Our hearts all melted when Andy finally made the decision to give them to another little girl named, Bonnie, who would cherish them just like he did. She had the same kind of love for her toys as Andy did when he was a child. For Andy, I think this was the closure that he needed to finally go off to college and depart from his favorites for good. Andy knew they were in good hands, unlike the kids at Sunnyside.
            Toy Story 3 was by far the most action packed, creative, and funny movie of all the Toy Stories. The characters took some new turns like Buzz was bilingual and Mr. Potato Head found a new identity as a tortilla, and all new characters that left you wondering what would happen next from the good ones to the bad ones from Sunnyside. For the duration of this 103 minute movie it never seemed to once take its audience for granted. From the vivid characters, to the background music, to the underlying messages to kids and adults, Director Lee Unkrich deserves a standing ovation for the creation on this movie and the ending to an amazing sequel.



References
Unkrich, Lee. (Director).  Anderson, D.  (Producer). (2010). Toy Story 3 [Film]. Burbank: Pixar.

Friday, September 2, 2011

The Carter IV Review

LIL WAYNE - THE CARTER 4


First of all, I gotta give credit to my man wayne. He's back. People think because he aint drop an album since he been in jail, he gotta give us some some mind blowing music. But i think he smarter than that. He gotta hype the people up and I think he made his point loud and clear. WAYNE'S BACK. When you are able to listen to a CD all the way through that means a lot to a person, it doesn't happen often, the Carter IV will have you kicked back and ready to relax. I can't not wait to hear the next album already. Props to wayne for a well put together album that leaves us wayne fan's anticipating his next move in the rap game. 
P.S. You better be working on something with my girl Nicki Minaj. 

(My Favorite Songs are in Bold.)

  1. Intro
  2.  Blunt Blowin' - This beat has your head boppin the whole time. I like how weezy be playin wit his voice in this song. The hook is my favorite part.
  3. Megaman
  4. 6 Foot 7 Foot 
  5. Nightmares of the Bottom
  6. She Will - Drizzy and Wayne always produce fire. This is a song i will playin for a long time. I cant help but stop whatever im doin and vibe a long.
  7. How to Hate - Another Auto-tuned T-pain special and i think he did the dayum thing. I love his part more then Wayne's. T-Pain I love when your motivated enough to make some fire music and lil wayne was the inspiration.
  8. Interlude
  9. John
  10. Abortion
  11. So Special
  12. Hot to Love
  13. President Carter
  14. It's Good - Not a Jay-Z fan, but interested to see where this beef might go. Never thought Wayne would be dissin Jay-Z.
  15. Outro
( Their might be some bonus tracks missing, i dont have all the names)

Bonus Track - Mirror on the Wall - By far one of my favorites on the CD. I love when weezy really raps something deep with meaning. I feel like this is a must hear. Bruno Mars is really vibin wit wayne, so here take a listen for yourself. what do you think? I know i can relate.






Remember your ABC's ....






Remember your ABC's everyone, well its not just something you teach your children in kindergarden. You can use the lovely letters of the alphabet to spice up your relationship. I have to give credit for Parents Magazine for publishing this great relationship tactic. Any couples can play this, money isnt a factor in this game, if you cant afford it theres plenty of free things, but remember to spurge on yourself every now and then its good for the soul. :D To play the ABC dating game you very simple just start with the letter A and think of a date you can create, revolved on things that start with an A. For example for A you can go to an aquarium, apple picking, watch avatar. You guys get the picture and you continue doing this till you get to the letter Z. by doing this you are discussing and planning with your partner and have plenty of oppurtunites to do things you both enjoy. After the first few letters you'll be excited to plan the next date together. Watch how much fun you'll have together but i strongly recommend that you use this opportunity to learn some new things about each other during this adventure.
G for Getaway

B for Bike Ride
P for Walk in the Park

S for Snorkeling.



Imagination is Required for this Activity as well as Creativeness & Remember the Sky is the Limit. 

never give your heart to someone who doesn't have one

this was originally my first blog idea, but i saved it for last today. (my son is really buggin' me right now about some movie, so ill make it fast). ima keep it real. ive had some pretty messed up relationships in the past. meaningless, im tryin' to tell you. sometimes i sit back and wonder what the heck i was thinkin'!! i cant even blame it on my youth. because i knew what i was doin'. i guess ill chalk them up to growin' pains. but as of this point in my life, ill admit: im going to be one stingy bastard when it comes to my heart. my son gets in, no questions asked. but id say he's the only make who doesn't have to prove his worth to be there. everyone else, i gotta test. i used to not care, but now im like 'show and prove'. when i love, i love hard. i dont like to leave room for doubt, exceptions, etc. the next bf i have, i only want to have eyes for him. i know i deserve a good 'relay'. i want it to be natural. not something i had to beg for, long for, hope the person changes if i love 'em long enough. you know, all that mess. its one thing to be patient with someone, its another thing to just be wastin' ya time. knowing the diff' is crucial. if you give your heart to someone who doesnt have one, it doesn't mean they're 'heartless'. it means that they just don't have a 'heart' for you. and thats ok. ain't nobody say everyone is gonna love you. but i think a lot of people ignore that tiny feeling in the back of their mind tellin' 'em there's no future with someone. we tell ourselves, ' well i dont know the future, so its still possible.' wrong and right. wrong in the sense that with some people, you just know it ain't gon' happen. no matter how optimistic you are. and right, no one knows the future. but i'll tell ya, i have some pretty good premonitions...as of right now im happy with the person im involved with. do i know if we are going to end up together forever? naw! am i willing to find out? yeah. will i ask questions and try to get to know if they are on the same page as i? hell yeah, i'd be a foo' not to. oscar wilde said something like 'ill wait forever for you, as long as you dont take too long.' and that's some of the realest sh** i've heard. he kept it real! everyone has their limits. dang, most people do want that whole happily ever after, but they aren't going to spend a lifetime to get there. guard your heart. you want to give it to someone who'd trade theirs for yours. not run off with it and send you a postcard sayin', 'wish you were here'.

single mama drama

ahhh, the quintessential 'single mom'. even though im not the stereotypical 'baby mama' as some women claim to be. i cant believe some women are proud of that!! i try not to think about parenting solo. i just live my life! its like i had to adjust and there was a new person added into my life. the most important person in my life. of course its hard at times, and i might look at his dad with an 'evil eye' if he ticks me off. but other than that, life is smooth. being a mom has made me up the ante. i graduated and ive worked harder than i ever have in my life. when you have a kid, there is no option to sink or swim. you just gotta make it, however you have to. of course i could try to sound all motivational, inspirational, etc to other single moms out there. but thats what yall would expect. lets keep it real. situations and feelings differ from person to person. just keep your head up. never let your kid see you 'goin' thru'. also dont blame the absent parent. it is what it is, right? your child is already here, and for whatever reason, you had them with that person. all you can do is be the best mama you can be, regardless. i wouldnt take my son back for anything. forget about me teaching him things for a minute; ive learned so much from him...

Goin' Au Naturale!

ive been playing around with the idea of going 'natural' for months. but i had neither the time nor the patience to dedicate to that kind of change in my life. i could barely keep up with my relaxers!! between 3 jobs, school (at one point) and my son, i was barely keeping myself presentable. but ive been doing a little research and figured, 'why not?'. my hair texture is pretty manageable as is. as of right now my last perm was a month ago. we shall see if i can stay away from them lol! my first transitional style are twists. my hair was tapered in the back and im just happy i had enough hair back there to grab on to! the next style i want is a weave of some sort. ive been lookin' in to the pros and cons and have abused youtube lookin' at diff' techniques and styles. im happy to say for my 25th bday comin' up at the end of the month, i will look ridiculously sexy hahah! plus ill be growing my hair out! im geeked. so let my hair journey begin...

FALL!!!: Why I can't wait!

So fall is my absolute favorite season of all time! lol There is just something about the feeling in the air.  Living in Michigan definitely has it's advantages as well, because I get a first hand look at all the beauty autumn brings.  This fall I'm excited about a few things and I must share:

FOOTBALL!!!!!



Ok, ok so I have never really been a die hard football fan, but I do know a little bit about the game and living a city away from the best college football team ever ;-) and working minutes away from the stadium I can't help but be a Michigan fan.  The atmosphere around here is just awesome.  My ex would be very proud of this post lol.  Anyway, this year I get a first hand U of M football experience.  I've volunteered to help my church work concessions at a few of the home games.  This is going to be fun!


TWILIGHT



So I saw the first Twilight and I was like ok this is cool.  But after having my 16 yr old cousin live with me and force me to watch the second one and third one over and over....and over again.  I can't help be be excited to see the next one.  Not to happy that is just part one of Breaking Dawn, because that mean, I will be forced to wait again for the next part lol.  Patience is a virtue!

APPLES!!!!



Now I'm not a big apple fan lol....I know, I know your like why the post then.  I mean who dosn't like going to the apple orchard? I just love the whole apple orchard atmospher: the cider, donuts, and hayrides.  It's just something I think everyone should experience.

FASHION




I have always loved fall fashion.  The jackets, boots, sweaters, cardigans, the layers, I just love it all there is so much you can do to play with your look.  This is by far my favorit thing about fall.

Oh I can't forget HOODIES. Gotta love snuggling up in a nice oversize hoodie, it has to be the most comfortable piece of clothing ever lol.


BONFIRES

Living in an apartment dosn't stop me from enjoying bonfires.  My neighbors have one like every weekend I must crash their party a few times this fall.


THANKSGIVING

This is my second favorit holiday and this year its going to be extra special!  I recently found out I have an 8 yr old nephew and my brother is adopting him so the new addition is going to be fun to have around for the holidays.


And last but not least the BEAUTY!



ENJOY!


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